Satisfaction of sex and physical intimacy

When newly married, sex is one of the most desirable partner. However, after walking a few years, the marriage began to face a variety of disorders, which ultimately impact on sex life. The reduced frequency of intercourse, or reduced quality of intimate relationship itself, often experienced by couples.
"When married, these couples tend to lack knowledge about sex, and how it can affect their marriage later," said Kristina Dzara, in his article entitled Assessing the Effect of Marital Sexuality on Marital Disruption.
While doing research on the role of sex for marriage, Dzara using panel survey of 1,000 newly married couples in Louisiana, United States, ages 28 years and the wife's husband of 30 years. He uses three measures of sexuality within the first 3-6 months of marriage, which is based on the frequency, satisfaction, and agreement antarsuami wife about their sex lives. The third measure is used to predict the divorce rate after five years of marriage.
Frequency of sex. According Dzara, frequency of sex partners is not a size that is too important. On average the young couple have sex between one to several times a week, and he does not really matter as long as the frequency of quality.
Satisfaction of sex and physical intimacy. For wives, sexual satisfaction and physical intimacy will decrease the likelihood of divorce. But the quality of marriage, sexual gratification, and intimacy, and influence proved to have the same effect for wives. On the other hand, if the husband's sexual satisfaction is guaranteed, the probability of divorce is also decreased drastically.
"The couple where the husband has sexual gratification with a high physical intimacy, the divorce rate will be reduced when compared with their husbands with low sexual life satisfaction. Pairs with low sexual satisfaction experienced marital disruption likely around 83.7 percent," said Dzara.
Agreement about sex within marriage. When married, not infrequently the pasangangan establish an agreement for their sex life, for example, how many times sex will be carried out in a week, when the right time, to relate a convenient way for both parties. Somewhat surprisingly, this kind of agreement was not very influential in the divorce rate, because this is done on the basis of mutual agreement of both parties.
In conclusion, sex is important for a healthy marriage. For wives, sexual satisfaction and marital satisfaction are also factors that affect divorce rates. Satisfaction

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Signs of men have another woman in his heart

You're approach or a love affair with a man, but he's still just be a stranger to you? The problem is probably not on you, but in man himself.
Physically and status, maybe you have it  as a lover. But what if there is someone who filled my heart and mind, and that person is not you? The reason he covered his feelings, can vary. Parents opposed the relationship, differences in beliefs, conflicting visions, or someone he loved had died.
Excerpted from She Knows, we can know the signs if a man's heart is owned by someone emotionally. This is evident from the way he communicates with a woman who is now a lover or being close to him. Like what?
1. Reluctant to Discuss Her feelings Indeed, not many men who want to talk about her feelings. Many of those who must be persuaded or encouraged to want to open first to the spouse. But when the man refused to get into your life, or worse yet, stay away when you try to figure out what he thinks or feels, it is likely you will be hard to continue a relationship with him.
Replacing the high walls that difficult for you and he share the feeling, is a signal that his love is not entirely tied to you. As a result, you will only waste time and effort just to guess, what problems he was experiencing, or the turmoil that he actually felt. While men are close to you that, still 'fun' with a mysterious side quizzically. If this situation happens, you should immediately speak from heart to heart and ask her to explain her true feelings toward you. When the he did not also want to talk, perhaps the proximity of being interwoven not be continued anymore.
2. You Do not Know History of Life in the Past Do you know and know his friends, his story in the school or college, family, romance earlier, hobby or favorite food? If most of the answers to these questions 'no', means he is trying to cover it up and do not want you to go even further into his life. Some men it takes time to uncover the past to the woman he loves. But if not the least of his past story which he Umbar, chances are he has not felt comfortable with the relationship now, because there are still others in his heart.

3. Discuss She Hate Relationship with you The man whose heart is owned by another woman, usually not be interested in talking about a love affair with a woman who was close to him. He tends to jump to 'a thousand steps' so that the status of women is his girlfriend opened the discussion about the direction of relationship, opinion about the continuation of the relationship, or other matters relating to romantically love and feelings. Shut up, changing the subject or even are reluctant to be the clearest sign, a man having an affair is not sincere. It is time for you to forget it and look for a better man. What can be expected from a one-sided love?
4. Never Give A Sure Answer Does he always answered with the word 'possible' whenever you asked the question that needs an answer 'yes' or 'no'? Maybe he wants to keep his distance emotionally, which could mean a red beacon in your relationship. Men who can not commit to everything about relationships, meaning he can not or will not let you closer to him to tie his love. 'Maybe' is a word that is usually uttered when someone is not very interested or enthusiastic about anything, including romance. So, if you do not want to fall deeper in this relationship is not clear, it's time to climb up, find the bright light and leave the dark pit.

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Dancing Naked for Money

Malang--Indonesia

For Yanti (25) and Santi (17), both pseudonyms, berbugil ria in front of a man masher not a shameful thing. In fact, they really enjoy this job. As the rhythm of the music, they show off the beautiful curve of her body prior to disarm one by one fabric attached to the body.
This activity lasted less than a month before police finally kissed activities that damage the morale of the citizens of Malang. Tuesday (23/08/2011) around 23:00 in the middle of Ramadan, police raided a place of entertainment of The Loft Entertainment Karaoke and Lounge Malang Town Square (Matos), Jalan Veteran, Malang.

Based on PPA Anton Prasetyo, visible Malang Criminal Police launch this news on Monday (9/26/2011), during the raids, Jackie, a resident of District Gedangan, Malang regency, and Santi, Breadfruit District residents, the city of Malang, was busy squirming in the presence of some men.
Suspicion of business-related security exotic dance originated from the public reports and local people. The report said that new entertainment venues opened in July 2011 is in addition to providing a means for karaoke, also provides services stripper.
Yanti and Shanti and then arrested, while three suspects provider is the manager of The Loft, namely M Nurdin aka Aria (30), as marketing manager; Ardi aka Zuliandi Diggoz (41), general manager, and Roni Teguh Nugroho (30), operational manager , had finally been charged.
Striptease dance services not provided Nurdin, Diggoz, and Roni to all customers. Only those with deep pockets and need these services are offered.
How, Roni see how many liquor ordered. After getting the customers have, Roni persuade it to customers before offering dish strippers. Once customers have entered the trap, Roni Diggoz directly asking permission to call the two dancers. After the exit permit, Roni directly submit it to Aria.
Aria role is as a person who brings strippers. For rates, Aria peg Rp 600,000 per hour for each dancer. From this rate, Rp 500,000 given to the dancers, and the rest into the pockets of managers of The Loft.

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Why Dominant Wife at Home More Rare Sex

The husband may not be too confused with the household stuff, but the wife is the boss turns out to have sex less frequently. This is confirmed by the discovery to be published in the Journal of Sex Research.
Researchers from the School of Public Health Johns Hopkins Bloomberg examines the relationship between married women's autonomy and regularity of sexual relations. They found that women are better positioned to make decisions much less frequent sexual intercourse.
Researcher Professor Michelle Hindin said there was a very consistent pattern in the observations of the six countries surveyed.
"More and more decisions taken by the women themselves than decisions taken together, the less likely he is to have sex and the longer since he last had sexual intercourse," said Professor Hindin as reported by The Telegraph, Monday (09/26/2011) .
The researchers analyzed survey data in Ghana, Malawi, Mali, Rwanda, Uganda and Zimbabwe are asking the survey participants indicate the day, week, month and year the last time they had sexual intercourse
Survey participants are also asked to indicate who in the household who usually decide the following matters as health care, purchase the majority of household equipment, purchase of daily necessities and household visits to family and friends.
Researchers also examined the factors of socio-demographic that may be associated such as age, wealth, position of husband and wife, husband's residence, and duration of marriage.
The study explains that the majority of women who participated in the survey last sexual intercourse in the last month. As for men, make their own decisions not related to the period of sex.
"The position of women in the household affects their sexual activity and can be an important part in protecting the sexual rights of women and help them achieve a safe sexual life and fun," said study co-author Carie Muntifering.

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In the Philippines the sex workers have a certificate of virginity

Although prostitution is actually illegal in the Philippines, several government-run clinics secretly conduct health checks on sex workers. In fact, who have never had sex will be given a certificate of virginity.
This fact was revealed in a confidential letter sent by a U.S. diplomat, Kristie Kenney for an embassy in his country. More recently, documents were coded 09-MANILA-1827 was leaked on the internet through the site WikiLeaks.
Kenney one of the statements in the letter is, government-owned health clinic Angeles City provide a certificate of virginity and sexual health status of workers at a nightclub. These activities are conducted in secret, because prostitution is actually illegal in the entire Philippines.
"Reports from the embassy in Manila's immigration report, several bars, hotels and private clinics to cooperate with the government clinic to facilitate prostitution," Kenney wrote in the document, as quoted from CBNnews, Monday (09/23/2011).
The clinics are run activities secret in order to control the transmission of genital infections. By doing a routine check, the clinics will be easy to monitor the spread of infection among sex workers.
Not only check the status of virginity and sexual health, health clinics run by the government is also providing special training. Material about safe sex, including how to pair condoms discreetly so as not to get caught by the customer.
The use of condoms, both male condom or female condom is believed to be quite effective in preventing transmission of genital infections including Human Imunnodeficiency Virus (HIV). However, customers are asked to use condoms is often difficult, because it feels pleasure will be reduced.
This finding is more horrendous because some time ago, U.S. Ambassador Harry Thomas said that 40 percent of foreign men who visit the Philippines is to have sex. In fact, according to Thomas, some Philippine officials involved illegal sex trade.   Source: detikhealth.com

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The reason He Reluctant Tied

If you're in a relationship that is really serious and steady with the man you love, then your decision is appropriate to ask for your apply. However, many men who have doubts and fears to take the decision to commit to the woman. Some women assess this situation as one point of the journey of their love, but others assume it shows a man in a relationship not serious.
To overcome this, you should know in advance the problems facing your partner. After knowing the problem, put yourself in a neutral position. Damping their fears, as well as show them that their fears and worries are not groundless. Make your partner feel safe and comfortable while on your side, so he felt totally loved, and confident that you are a woman who could be trusted. Thus he will be confident and better prepared to establish a commitment with you.
Here are three reasons why men are afraid to be bound with you:
Afraid you'll change it. Sometimes men feel that you can not accept who she is. Men also feared that to please you, he must change the nature or personality into someone he did not want. Therefore assure him that you can accept it as is.
Afraid you just like it does on for you. Sometimes men think, you just love on him when he was willing to do anything for you, and not vice versa. A man can feel when you want to commit to him just because of status, or money. He also can sense whether you love him what it was, without any other frills. To convince himself back, show that you are interested in the personal, not because of what he did to you.
Afraid you depend on it. This will happen when we're in love. Unconsciously we ignore and forget the many other interests, including stopping to spend time with your friends. Because, you chose to continue "stuck" Your lover is. This actually makes it uncomfortable, even depressed. When in fact he took the time to do other activities and make friends with other people.
To convince him that you do not rely on it, show that you can be independent. You still feel comfortable when spending time with your friends.

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The key to harmonious relations in pairs

One of the key pair is a harmonious relationship with each other to offer assistance, as well as motivating. Potential of the pair sometimes drown because the lack of confidence. You and your partner can foster mutual confidence, to motivate each other. Men also need motivation, but should convey the right way like this.
1. Give evidenceMen think realistically. So give him the evidence, including evidence of its success so far. When the excitement died down, remind him by showing the evidence of his success so far. Men need to be reminded again, with the evidence, that he is capable and talented, based on past achievement.
2. Give specific praisePraising it's good for boosting self-confidence. However, too often give credit for the achievement or ability to actually become redundant and ineffective.
Men need support in the form of advice or input is practical to achieve success. Give a specific award, to regrow her motivation. Instead of just saying that the he has the potential, it would be better if you mention right away that he was adept at communicating, having the ability to lead a good, and the potential for more specific.
3. Advice and guidanceYou can be successful if it motivates him to give advice and guidance to make small steps. Men are better able to capture the motivation if you give advice and directions that could lead him to start walking.
For example, if the he plans to start a new business. With whom he planned to start a business by helping create a list of phases of activity. Includes a list of contacts relating to the business.
4. Do not be too ambitiousThere's a thin line between being supportive by providing support to the ambitious. Did you mean to give support and encourage your partner, but if too show personal ambition, the result would not be effective.
Especially if you push a partner who is losing the spirit or Mersa dead end to do something. Although you want a partner for success, provide motivation and support in an effective way.

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Historical romance lovers

Historical romance lovers can tell you many things about him.  

Ready to uncover the secrets of the past?
1. He practiced monogamy "chain".The status of singles she never more than two weeks, without ever once was two-timing boyfriend. Plus, he's a man who is not afraid of commitment. He is also the kind of person who feels happy when getting the love and undivided attention of people who menyintainya. In return, he is also willing to give similar attention to his girlfriend.
Negative, the habit of moving from one affair into another relationship without giving a pause, could indicate the he is a man who feels uncomfortable with himself, so always need the presence of a companion.
2. He had an affair.Dark past is not a guarantee of 100 percent that he will also betray your trust. But it could not hurt to talk to him about the background to his actions in the past two-timing lover.
Ask questions in a relaxed without interrogating memorable. If he does not have a plausible reason for perlakuannyanya first, and do not give a signal of regret, and intention to improve his behavior, then you should prepare the possibility that such events will happen again someday.
3. He never betrayedSomeone who never betrayed in the past is likely to save the trauma and problems in opening up and trusting others.
As a lover, you need to try, gradually, to restore confidence and belief in love relationships. Do not quickly inflamed when he showed signs of wanting to get away without clarity. Chances are, it is her way of protecting themselves from possible hurt that was unable to reach you.
Reassure him that you will always support and be on her side as her lover. If you already feel comfortable, in the end he would be willing to open up.
4. He has never had a loverIf he had never been romantically involved before with you, chances are he is the kind of guy and a perfectionist who voters want to control everything.
If you want to continue a relationship with him, you have to negotiate some things. Like what can be controlled by him, and which must be free from interference.
Another possibility, he's afraid to face rejection, so do not dare to move closer to women before absolutely sure of his actions.
Since the he has not experienced in building relationships, you need to be patient in giving "lessons" in the world of romance.
5. The he playboyPlayboy nickname will not be stopped just like that in a man with no background. Although follow-horns in front of you do not show these characters, you still need to be vigilant.
If you do not want to be one of the victims, begin to recognize gelagatnya. Then stacking strategy to anticipate the habits make you complacent and launch attacks that could make you surrender to it.
6. Hobbies dating "drama queen"Men who have experience dating a drama queen, has a tendency to transform the couple into an emotional person and obsessed with her love relationship.

How, can with a push-pull strategy which makes me curious. It could also do something that makes her lover so dependent on him. This attitude showed his face because he enjoys the drama that occurred. On the other hand, the he wants to feel himself the hero who saves "ladyship", his girlfriend who was frantic.

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Five Factors that Make Sex More Passionate

Sexual position is not the only factor that makes sex more passionate. According to the findings of the Trojan's U.S. Sex Census, most preferred the missionary position. But the sex positions are not the only determinant of passionate sex. A number of other factors also determine the sexual satisfaction.

 

1. GeographyU.S. study finds data, Americans have sex about 120 times a year. The same study states, 63 percent of respondents still want more frequent sex.
However, the fact of geographical factors also affect the frequency of sexual relations in America. If you want more frequent sex, living in the northeast United States more likely. People who live in this region have sex more often, about 130 times a year. They are also more likely to use condoms during sex. While those living in the south have sex less frequently, on average 114 times per year.
2. Healthy RelationshipsCouples who have healthy relationships, keeping commitments, build positive households have more sexual satisfaction. Although the frequency of sex is not too often, but such couples are more satisfied with their sex lives.
3. LocationSex not only must be done in bed. Location can also affect sex couples. According to research in the United States, 48 ​​percent said more passionate sex in the car. While 33 percent said the passionate lovemaking on a bed of others, for example at a friend's house.
The more unusual the location, the higher the sexual arousal. As many as 33 percent of men admitted to imagine having sex on the plane. While 26 percent of women want to make love in a place on the beach or sea.
4. Gender differencesTrojan Findings also mentions, 83 percent of men tend to be more eager to experiment with sex, and only 65 percent of women who want the same thing.
Men like to discuss sex with Facebook or Twitter, about 15 percent. While only six percent of women who want to discuss about sex through social media.
5. SextingExcite chat by phone or send messages through the communication section in fact too powerful arousing. In general, 19 percent of Americans like sexting like this.

Nine Bad Habits in the Upper Beds

The bed should be a good friend for a husband and wife. However, often you are not aware of having done a bad thing that will negatively affect your sex life. Consider the example below.

Speaking about the former. Discard much a story about your ex-girlfriend out of bed. Honesty is a good thing, but this does not mean you have to reveal all things, including about your ex-lover. Your partner would not want to hear stories about your ex-lover, or things you do with him, just as you do not want to see your partner talking about other women. If for some reason you have to talk about your ex-lover, do it elsewhere.
Creating the atmosphere of the bed is too girly. Do not decorate the bedroom with the application of the flowers or lace. Detail is often lethal male sex drive. On the bed, your partner just want to "enjoy the beauty of" You, and not enjoy the atmosphere of a bed filled with flowers or ribbons. Better, use a variety of applications that are neutral or innocent. The feminine side of yourself you do not have to be displayed in the form of knick-knick too girly, right?

Often pretend. Not so spare yourself to pretend to enjoy sex session with your partner. For example, couples flirting with moans or groans, though well-intentioned. But better do not do this trick, because it will mess up your sex life. If you always pretend to enjoy it, then he will think that way that makes you feel satisfied and able to achieve orgasm. As a result, he will continue to perform the same way when making love, even though you actually do not like it. Conversely, if the partner does not satisfy you, give a gentle reprimand to help meet your expectations.
Ignoring the importance of photos. A photo showing the picture you and your partner in a cheerful and happy atmosphere is one of the ornate room that is very precise. However, you should only put your photos and your partner, without children, the elderly, or anybody else. Role as a parent should be left when you are in bed. According to feng shui, romantic photos you and your partner will enhance harmony and positive energy in your domestic life.
Displaying stuffed animals. Puppet Mini Mouse or Winnie the Pooh is good to be friends to sleep. But when you get married, stuffed animals such as this can create a passion so drop. You can still save your favorite teddy bear, but you should not put on the bed. Blank stare of a stuffed animal that lies on the pillow was not romantic for men.
Careless. When alone with your partner, you should feel comfortable. However, that does not mean you can do all things in front of your partner. For example, do not act recklessly by allowing the bathroom door open, shave her legs, or cut the nails on the bed when she is with you. Although this activity is a common practice to everyone, but if done when the she was horny, can-can instantly extinguished his passion.
Set the sparsely furnished. Placement of some of the furniture can transform a simple bedroom into a romantic place. Give a little distance on either side of the bed in order to allow flexibility to move. Do not place a bed under a window or door facing into the room (in feng shui is known as the "coffin position"). Also do not let the water element is in the bedroom, such as flower vases or water mattress. In feng shui, water elements are believed to interfere with the relationship.
Turn on the television. There are many things that you can place it on the bed, which could help create a sensual and romantic atmosphere, such as candles and soft music. However, there are also some things that are not needed in the room, such as television. A study says, of the television in the bedroom can reduce the level of your romance.
Treat it as a friend. You might choose him because he can be your good friend and lover. But on the bed, he was not a good friend, but your loved one. So stop talking about problems at work, caused an annoying friends, or praise a male friend who helps you do the work in the office. Treat her like a lover, and not as a friend.

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Signs that the birth mother can not be normal

 

There are several reasons that make the birth mother can not be normal. There can be detected well in advance of delivery. But there are also new was decided during labor.

Surely, if the mother's condition does not allow for normal delivery, whatever the cause, do not push yourself because it would endanger the safety of mother and fetus.

Here are the signs that the birth mother can not be normal, which can be known before birth, as explained Dr. Oni Khonsa, SpOG of Friendship Hospital, East Jakarta.

1. Mothers with diabetes and large size of the fetus.
Have diabetes during pregnancy usually would affect less well on maternal health. Fetuses that were born were usually quite large, can reach 4-5 kg. These conditions make it difficult fetus out through normal delivery, so it must pass surgery.

2. The fetus was normal.
Normally, before the time of birth, the fetal position is head down and feet above. Straight position where the head will come out first. But many cases show is not the case, there is a breech, entwined cord, the percentage of the buttocks and legs are not perfect, position of the face side, and others.

Usually, doctors can monitor this situation through an ultrasound examination. If the known location of the fetus is abnormal and can not be corrected, then the doctor will prepare a cesarean delivery.

3. Fault history.
If mothers had cesarean delivery, the consideration of the next delivery is cesarean delivery. Especially if your next pregnancy is very close distance, less than two years. Section, Caesarean section may make the uterine wall thinning (less than 1 cm). However, it is possible to do a normal delivery when the mother's condition is safe. Doctors will continue to make observations, if a normal delivery may be performed or not.

4. Placental abnormalities.
If placental abnormalities, such as cover part or all of the birth canal, usually labor must be performed by caesarean section. If imposed through the normal path, it is feared the mother would experience severe bleeding. Doctors who have seen this condition were usually will schedule a caesarean section.

5. More than two fetuses.
For mothers who conceive twins more than two, if the risk is big enough to do normal deliveries. If the mother is not strong spell, the risk is there tearing the walls of the birth canal are quite severe, so severe bleeding can occur, and others.

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